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Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Sociology Black White Dating Is Here To Stay

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Black white dating should not be judged even by those who feel that races should not mix. And for those who feel interracial dating should be forbidden, one thing they need to realize is that we now live in a world where race, age and even financial status are becoming less and less important in our relationship. Skin color isn't that important... personality flies.

Black white dating and interracial dating and marriages have generally increased. We now look for people who make us happy and who we can make happy despite race and all those things that used to matter then.

The internet is the best place to start the journey of black white dating if that is what you are interested in. You can fine the person who is right for you just by surfing the internet. Prejudice will always be there and as long as interracial dating exists, there are those who will always cringe at the idea. So best thing is to just live your life and find the one the makes you tick without caring what others think.

When it comes to relationships, race should not matter. And much as it defines someone's beliefs and where the person comes from, it plays a very small role in romantic relationships and should not be a factor to eliminate all potential partners.

Given history, black white dating has proved to be challenging. That much we cannot deny. But when you get the right place to start from (a place where people think alike), you will be fine. This is why black white dating sites exist; to increase ones possibilities of interracial dating.

So when you see a black white couple passing by, it's not our place to tell them whether they should or shouldn't date. I think we all have our personal problems to worry about besides other people's relationships. And races weren't created to live in separation but to interact and live in harmony. So if all co-exist in our work places, what difference is there in romantic relationships?

Fact: Even with all the criticisms, interracial dating is going nowhere. So if society is the reason you aren't happy with the one you love, ask yourself this: "Will society keep me company when I am lonely or miserable with someone I don't love?"

Ria Rodriguez is a writer and regular blogger for HTTP://WWW.AFROROMANCE.COM on all topics to do with relationships and dating in an interracial world. Ria is of mixed race origins and brings a fun and unique perspective on multicultural dating topics.

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Social Psychology Does Nlp Allow You To Read People Minds

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I am in Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) for quite a while now. My passion started of in 2004 with a 2-day course and I never looked back. It is an amazing tool to understand myself and others.

After completing my all the different courses related to NLP (e.g.; Hypnosis, Timeline Therapy(TM) Techniques and others), I am now training these different disciplines to those interested.

I am sure that those of you who read this and have done their NLP Practitioner or gone beyond it have encountered the most famous question everyone in NLP once encounters - "Can you read my mind? What am I thinking right now?"

Those that ask me look at me with eyes wide open. A curious expression on the face. May be a slight smile.

I don't know where this idea comes from. Is it propagated by Darren Brown or did it come about because of the most famous application - the Eye Accessing Cues?

You see, people move their eyes in all directions, all the time. Even so it its validity is questions every now and then, NLPlers state that when people experience, create or recall a certain event, they move their eyes into certain directions.

You move your eyes up when you create or recall a picture, to the side when you create or recall sounds and down when you either get in touch with your feelings or check on your self-talk (a short crash course in NLP).

It might be because of this that NLPlers are said to be mind readers. But actually, it is more complicated than this.

Reading minds has something to do with a variety of things, of which only one are the Eye Accessing Cues.

Other factors that play a role are the ability to build deep rapport, watching body movements and body language (hey - it is a sure give away), the tonality of people and listening, listening, listening to what people have to say.

Most importantly, however, are the way people express their values and beliefs in their actions, the behavioural traits expressed in their "normal" language (look for the Language and Behaviour Profile to know more about it), and a lot of cold reading.

Wikipedia describes Cold Reading as follows:


"Cold reading is a technique used by mentalists and is claimed to be used by fortune tellers, psychics, and mediums to determine details about another person in order to convince them that the reader knows much more about a subject than he or she actually does. Even without prior knowledge of a person, a practiced cold reader can still quickly obtain a great deal of information about the subject by carefully analyzing the person's body language, clothing or fashion, hairstyle, gender, sexual orientation, religion, race or ethnicity, level of education, manner of speech, place of origin, etc. Cold readers commonly employ high probability guesses about the subject, quickly picking up on signals from their subjects as to whether their guesses are in the right direction or not, and then emphasizing and reinforcing any chance connections the subjects acknowledge while quickly moving on from missed guesses."

I am not claiming to be able to read people's mind. That's way too hard. The mind is too fast for me. But I learned through my own training that it is possible to be pretty accurate about a person's attitude to life, their way of approaching things, what they value and what is important to them. I am often correct in knowing their style of dressing when I talked to them on the phone.

People are like open books. Open books when you know what to look out and listen for. Of course, this is not something that is easily learned in just 10 days. It takes practice, patience and time. It is lots of fun, nevertheless.

Imagine, just for a moment, you simply know what is important to a person by looking at them, and then you make a respective compliment. The door to rapport and trust is wide open. It allows for deep conversations. No more pretending, and an open and mutually enhancing conversation based on win-win.

The result? You are perceived to be a great coach, a better parent, a more empathetic colleague, a super boss an understanding HR person, a wonderful salesperson, THE great listener and more.

Add on to the list....... by yourself. What do you want to be?

That is the power of NLP. The pleasure to speed up relationships. The ability to understand yourself to shut up your own inner voice. The wonderful feeling to just be there for the other person, when they truly need it.

And then, if required, to initiate change. To widen the other person's perspective. To let them have insights into their problem, and develop their own solution.

I say that this is the WoW Factor of NLP.

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Tuesday, November 29, 2011

The Kid Still Got It Review Of Kid Creole And The Coconuts Friars Club 271109

The Kid Still Got It Review Of Kid Creole And The Coconuts Friars Club 271109
The Kid's Still Got It! - Review of Kid Creole and the Coconuts @ Friars Club 27/11/09В Not so very long ago, in a town not all that far away, I rock up outside Aylesbury Station to pick up my photographer. I've already been round the town twice to find the station, and predictably it will take another few laps of Aylesbury's town centre before we ditch the car in a multi-story and head off to find the LegendaryFriars Club.First port of call is to get our passes and then find drink (long enduring day in the office.....and hell.....it's Friday!)В We pass under large brick arches and round the side of a really quite impressive Victorian built mega hall to access the entrance to theВ Civic Centre. Already a throng of people are shuffling outside puffing on cigarettes or making their way through the tiny one person entranceway in-between overly enthusiastic door staff. Already at this vantage point in the queue, we can see a mass of middle-aged men and women, clearly ecstatic to be let out of the house. Dressed up to the nines in their best Matalan attire holding gingerly onto their plastic pint glasses like it was the first time. I predict that once we get our passes, we'll quickly retreat to the backstreets of Aylesbury for a traditional pint in one of those hard see through thingies.Eventually we are at the front and we get directed over to a hole in the wall to receive our passes. An old couple of Gals are there before us and one is thanking the guy on the other side for such a wonderful invitation for such a special event on such a lovely night. Oh Jesus... They finally start to shuffle away from the window but our hopes are dashed when the particularly dotty one swings back to the window with the wrist band dangling from her frail fingers.В "And what exactly is this for?"В So after another few minutes of her and the staff fumbling over her decrepit snap-able wrists, she moves along and we get our passes.We'll skip to our return to the venue as the pub visit wasn't all that. Not all that traditional, too loud, men with work boots eyeing up my entrance pass. (This might have been out of admiration, but I suspect they wanted to test out their footwear over our pretty non local, gig going, non Neanderthal faces.)В So back inside we start to explore. Yes, we are just about the youngest people here. I see one couple with a spotty, curly haired youth wedged in-between them but apart form that...Nada. The bar and reception areas are nothing to write home about but the stage itself is quite impressive. Sports hall like, with very high ceiling and generous space to move. The balcony above (to which we have access) surrounds the top three sides with DJ and sound desks neatly arranged.It's not long before the support band is called up on stage.В China Crisis. The crowd seem genuinely excited so we mosey on down to the front. I can't say I've heard this band before. A name like that resonates in my head like some kind of Asian Punk Ska outfit! Sadly, this wasn't to be the case. A middle aged assortment of men pick there way on the stage to their chosen instruments, from here they look more like groupies doing sound tests. You couldn't mistake the lead singer however. Suited up and looking remarkably likeВ Tony HadleyВ fromВ Spandau Ballet, he flaunts his way up to the microphone and starts addressing the legion of fans before him. I instantly feel unnerved by this man on stage. The crowd seem to love him but with his constant flicking of the hair, facial quirks and (strangely) the touching of his face meant I almost can't look at him.As you can probably guess, I won't be writing a hugely favourable review forВ China Crisis. Not only have I never heard of them or wished too, there style of music is seriously too old 'new wave' for my liking. As a whole, the band is tight and professional with even the creepy singer hitting the notes pitch perfect. It doesn't alter the fact though that I want to run for my life away from the aging rockers and the mums quite literally dancing round their handbags next to me.For the remainder of their act, we escape to the upstairs balcony to sup beers and play with the camera.Between acts, we step outside and grab an unsuspecting member of the public for an interview. I felt I needed a little more background of the atrocity which wasВ China CrisisВ and also of the upcomingВ Kid Creoleperformance. We strike gold! Not only is this guy Johnny an extremely nice guy but is knowledgeable on both music and ofВ AylesburyВ in general. Far too much was said to be put into this meagre review, but least be said we were told about CC's admiring fan base and their rather successful 'support act' role for the last thirty years. Johnny wetted our appetites with his past experience ofВ Kid CreoleВ in Brighton and generally gave us a run down on the life of theВ Friars clubВ andВ Aylesbury. Apparently the main reason for the 25 years gap of the Friars club not being open was due mainly to the outburst of violence between local skin head ruffians and their counterparts from Bedford back in the eighties. Hmmm - interesting. We left him to get ready for theВ Kid CreoleВ crew but not before getting a diamond quoteВ "Aylesbury's a small town, with big fowns and big showdowns...."В - Nice!We enter the venue and make our way to the front. Although the crowd is the same as before, their definitely is a more laid back, jostling, party atmosphere in the room. The band enters the stage to the appreciation of the crowd. Drums, brass section and various others assemble on the stage including the almost infamous Bongo Benny with outrageous turquoise suit and oversized white golfing hat. The stage fills up with yet more musicians and the famousВ CoconutsВ - more about them later! Then finally the legendaryВ Kid CreoleВ enters the mix and boy - this man still has it. Dressed in natty long limbed pink suit and matching fedora, a quick address to the crowd and they kick off more or less straight away with Annie, I'm not your daddy! The crowd go nuts; this is what we've been waiting for all evening. Each band member kicked seamlessly into action with a wonderful mix of Caribbean percussion, big brass sounds and jacked up funky piano, guitar and most importantly vocals provided byВ The Kid and the Coconuts. The girls are just great. They are the perfect accompaniment toВ The KidВ and just watching them leaves me out of breath. (No, not in that way.) They are just so incredibly energetic with perfect dance routines moving in and around the stage. (Mostly cavorting aroundВ The Kid) and yes, they are extremely easy on the eye. The songs keep coming and the atmosphere turns into more of a carnival as each minute passes by. The songsВ Stool Pigeon,В Gina GinaВ (my personal favourite...) andВ I'm a wonderful thing, babyВ all went off like a wicked big band tropical fun bomb and I doubt there were any unsatisfied punters in the venue that night. This is definitely a band that is best seen live. None of what I'd listened to before had prepared me for the pure funk genius whichВ The KidВ incorporates into this spectacular piece of showmanship. Every musician with solos and as a whole played to perfection including might I add, the lead guitarist who allegedly is the son of the late greatВ Jimi Hendrix, but we are sure this is just a wild rumour.The band might have a line up utterly changed from their days playing here back 27 years ago, but I can more or less guarantee they sounded as if they'd never left us. It is a great accomplishment for the Kid to have stuck to his groove and maintain a band of such high calibre which still can rock any venue or audience. It's late, and we have a thousand roundabouts before we reach home (Milton Keynes). So we leave with a swing in our step, rhythmic melodies stirring the blood and lyrics still pounding our ears. I might even come back again, the venue's quite good. If theВ Friars ClubВ can establish itself again as cultural music haven fit for the modern day, who knows?Then again, I might have to leave it ten years and shave my head!8/11Review by Matthew Phillips (AKA Pilchid)Photography by James Hough (AKA Mintyhit)

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Monday, November 28, 2011

Popular Psychology Single Ladies Overcome Obstacles To Meet More Women

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SOMEWHERE BETWEEN 50 AND 80 PERCENT OF WOMEN ARE IN RELATIONSHIPS...IT'S JUST THE WAY IT GOES SOMETIMES.... YOU HAVE TO START GOING TO NEW PLACES AND APPROACHING DIFFERENT TYPES OF WOMEN.... A LOT OF THE TIME WHEN YOU'RE MEETING WOMEN, YOU'VE GOT TO BE FAIRLY PERSISTENT.

Find more single ladies--x2!

DEAR VIN,

I LIVE IN NEW YORK CITY, WHICH IS SAID TO BE A PLACE WHERE THERE'S AN ABUNDANCE OF SINGLE WOMEN, BUT EVERY WOMAN I MEET SEEMS TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP. HOW IS IT THAT I CAN'T SEEM TO FIND THE SINGLE LADIES?

SAM


Dear Sam,

What you're experiencing is not abnormal. Statistically, somewhere between 50 and 80 percent of women are in relationships. So, it's likely not something that you're doing wrong or just bad luck-it's just the way it goes sometimes. Usually, when a guy comes to me in this situation-unable to find and doesn't know how to meet more women-he has to expand his horizons. You have to start going to new places and approaching different types of women. If you typically go to night clubs and bars, start going to different ones or try taking up a hobby. If you've never been to a gym, join one-they're filled with women. If you typically wait for a woman to be clearly available, start picking a woman striking up a conversation instead of feeling out the situation for a really long time-if you find out you're not interested or she's unavailable, you'll be able to move on quickly to another woman and see if she's a better match. Conversely, if you've spent the whole night waiting for the right moment only to strike out, you've wasted the evening and have no chance for recovery.

If you've read Pandora's Box, you'll know about the different types of women, like investors who tend to have longer relationships. And what's critical to realize in your situation is that not all women who are in relationships are necessarily off the market. Some of them are very unhappy, interested in meeting new guys, and might not leave a relationship until they've met someone else.

It's not always the end of a game when a girl says she's in a relationship. It's worth getting an idea of how she feels about it. If she's very positive about her relationship, then I would just walk away and leave her alone, but if she is rather negative and signaling she might be interested in leaving it, then you can basically consider her available. A lot of guys can be a little too nice and give up too quickly, not realizing they have a real shot with a woman. They meet a girl but hit some resistance or obstacle and they check out immediately. A lot of the time when you're meeting women, you've got to be fairly persistent. Try to get more information about the situation and stick in there a little bit longer to be sure about what's really going on with her.

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Sunday, November 27, 2011

5 Types Of Dating Tips For Men

5 Types Of Dating Tips For Men
In interested for any good dating advice, greatest of you strength be expecting some do's and don'ts or come crossways at some articles or videos of David DeAngelo or Neil Strauss. Unquestionably they can be a lot of help. Worldly wise the basics of dating will help you get through it abundantly and will bring about a better skylight of having a second date with the self-same person. On the other hand some men may need added kinds of dating advice. If you are not certain what type of advice you need, you may reliable on the following:

1. Beginners. These are the types of advice that are claim for beginners like the one mentioned more, the basic do's and dont's of dating. Need who gets to pay the version, everywhere to deal with your date, and the likes.

2. If you think you're not a guy whom girls would organic to walk off their attention at first sight, then you essential reliable relatives dating tips for guys on how to improve yourself. Examples of this is how to improve your tang, to be rinse or tidy looking, etc.

3. If you want to learn how added guys, second the pickup artist, can daze with girls on their first date, then you essential be looking for seduction tips. On the other hand these kinds of advice are leader advanced.

4. Relationship advice. Several men are seeking a leader serious advice and not just about dating some girls. They are looking for advice about charming a woman's heart.

5. Face women. On the other hand you will not really search for advice on how to understand women, you may still find some stuff about them. Sometimes, or maybe greatest of the times, it helps to convene how women thinks. An exciting example of this is Julian Foxx's explanation on how the women's menstrual move along affects their preference of men.

If you are really serious on teaching yourself and initial some dating skills, then intelligence some tips may not be satisfactory. Try attending some trainings and bootcamps. You'll be leader on show on how stuff really work in the dating community. Report from the experts.

Day Twenty Four In Skyrim Life Death And Astrid

Day Twenty Four In Skyrim Life Death And Astrid
-Why does any person keep telling me I look terrible? Is this what it feels like to be Keith Richards?

-Fine, I belief I'll get a room at the inn and see if some rest clears up whatever this is. Nine hours of tranquillity essential do it.

-Why am I sooner than disturbed... in a cabin?! I went to bed in an inn! Oh make you laugh let this be a flight of the imagination sequence.

-Well for a horrendous air you are easy on the eyes, Astrid.

-Why are the very ones perpetually murderously insane? May well you be upper of a stereotype? Go swiftly, let me spot your plan ahead for why I essential join you in the Pitch-black Brotherhood and become a full blown killer.

-WHAT?! I am Not a bit like you! You are a callous demolisher, who never stops to think about the negative effects they weigh down on folks a number of them. I, on the widely permit, accommodate a character set-up that will land me in analysis at some point.

-Also, fine we are each one callous, but you are only right such as of a worthlessness. As lizards go I'm very fairly warm-hearted.

-Don't get all territorial with me over "Grelod the Identifying mark", she was a dejected old woman with the ranks of a shell-less snail. If you, and your gentle club, were sure formally professional you would accommodate killed her long forward I sure type the municipal of Riften.

-Owe you? Connect, you're awful about this? You band to be under the impression I'm abysmal of equipment that go fall victim to in the night, the Pitch-black Brotherhood scares me about as by a long way as leprosy... slip, very I'm abysmal of leprosy, I... I largely can't think of an prepared example at the importance.

-Also, forward we maintain arguing, would you genially explain the three journey and hooded family tree you accommodate stored on the widely side of the room? It's a bit un-nerving.

-"Character for a life"? Doesn't matter what are you talking about? You be set to me to kill one of them?!

-No need to be fretful people, according to the attractive sociopath on the projection over hand over only one of you needs to die, so for two of you this is very good news.

-*deep breath* One of these poor bastards is looked-for insensible by the brotherhood and I need to physical type out which... Friggin' awesome.

-Okay, let's just accommodate a gentle chat with these family tree and physical type out which one record deserves to die... I can't think of guise less practiced to make this preference than I, well, most likely Astrid.

-Let's see... you sir, the one panicking under the headdress on the spent, any container the loon over hand over would want you dead? Sir, make you laugh pacify down, I can't spot what you're saying over the weepy. Actually, nevermind.

-On to candidate number two... Miss? MISS! Inspection yelling at me and... MISS! I'M Strenuous TO HELP! God damn it! Would you make you laugh lis.. LISTEN! Besides your dreamlike personality, can you think of any container society would want you dead? Everybody besides me?

-On to candidate three... a Catman who is say about assaulting dust women. Scarcely, I think we accommodate a affect.

-Astrid, I've made-up about this long and hard and I've significant which one deserves to die...

-*thwomp* you.

-What part of "let's snatch the dragonborn and see if he is injustice" seemed like a good idea?!

-Did you think you dragging me out of bed and into this possessed stand would make me upper satisfactory to your insane plan?! *Thwomp*

-I told you I wasn't like you! But noooooOOOooo, that wasn't enough! *thwomp* You had to mood the issue!

-And now you accommodate your reaction, your bandage ends present-day. *thwomp*

-Ok, you family tree are free to go... except you Catman *thwomp*, you're a intense bastard.

-Well, I belief you won't be needing this "Axe of Woe" anymore. I be set to your brethren will come looking for this custom... and me. Lovely, close keeps a mind brilliant like discharge unremitting manslaughter attempts.

-Get some bed-rest they said, it will do you good they said. Inane villagers...

I speculate this is what record Japanese game-shows are like.

Girls Love Stories

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When reading romance comics from the '60s and '70s, it is often tempting to skip over the advice columns and head straight onto the next sequential story. Many of the letters are rather repetitive and often feature young girls in love with older boys, and the tensions and turmoils between blossoming teens and disapproving parents. Once in a while, however; a letter will stick out as being more than ordinary, just as this one from the Girls' Love Stories #164 (December 1971) column, "From Barbara Miles, with Love."

(click to enlarge!)

Though by 1971 our country had come a long way from the days of Jim Crow and government sanctioned segregation, it is obvious from this letter that the effects of discrimination were still very real and felt by many. If you look hard enough, it becomes obvious that romance comics weren't just a disposable mode of entertainment, but at times -- agents of change. And that's just another reason to love 'em!

Have a wonderful weekend!



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Saturday, November 26, 2011

Singles And Dating Open Question Relationship Advice Please Help

Singles And Dating Open Question Relationship Advice Please Help Image
i really need HELP. ok so i was with my girlfriend for 2 and half years, she said last tuesday she needs to think about us. weve had some problems not major but problems, her family dont really like me either but they havent since we met. we are so conforatable around eachother we both make eachother laugh, i had my own flat and i was not very happy coz i had bills to pay all the time couldnt take her out and she always paid to take me out not ideal for me atall. we were deeply in love i still am. i then tried calling her and texting her alot and she changed her number. by thursday, i then went to see her again and i broke down got on my knees begged her to come back to me but she said she needs space and she dosent hink it will work, we went bus stop and she snogged me before i went home then next day she phoned me said she really loves me and wants to be with me and she was crying on the phone, i was so happy i fort she was coming back to me she arranged to meet me but then a text hlf hour before she was going to come see me. saying i need more time it dosent feel right. and i broke again, she quickly blocked my number so i cudnt call.she didnt contact me saturday, then i text her mum asking to get rose to ring me, 3 hours later she rang. she said she dosent love me no more and dosent care about me. then she ssaid she got rid of all the stuff i got her, cards letters, ect.. i begged on the phone to see me and work it out but she didnt want to she got angry and yelled at me saying dont call again its over and hung up on me this is sunday. then next day monday my mum seen her walking to work and spoke to her, my mum asked whats going on and rose said its over. my mum said ok rose dont call him or text him ever again as i havent eten for 5 days not properly anyway or slept much atall, then rose said she needs time to think, but she acts like nothing has happend i believe she actually dosent care anymore. anyway im back on facebook, she dosent have it but her sister does and her sister has me as a friend so can see all my posts, anyway theres a girl who wants go out for a drink with me on saturday shes goodlooking but i love my ex she is amazing and gorgeous. ive been talking to her so my gf sister can see my wall and she can show rose this. is it a good idea to try and make her jelouse because ive tried evrything else and its not working but she keeps saying she needs time to think. ive arranged a drink for saturday with this girl and this girl is really keen will this make my ex jelouse? ps im not stringing the girl along she was an old friend from college so its a catch up really im 22 btw my gf is nerly 21? please HELP

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Pandora S Box Is A Dating System

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" PANDORA'S BOX: A MAN'S GUIDE TO THE FEMALE MINDMp4+Mp3+PDF h264 899kbps English 640x360 30fps aac 128kbps 5.25 GBGenre: Video Training, ebook"

The Pandora's Box System from Vin Di Carlo is an online course that helps men to understand women better. Vin Di Carlo is one of the most famous pick up artists in the world after a long history of creating products and seminars that sell very well. He has a large fan following of students that use his dating advice to get better with women. Amongst his other popular dating and pick up advice are The Attraction Code and Dominant Sexual Power. As chief editor at Dating Skills Review I review and oversee reviews by other editors for hundreds of dating advice for men products. Unfortunately a lot of them aren't very good.

For some reason dating and pick up advice attracts a lot of not very good products and services, fraudsters, scams and just not 'delivering on their promise' products. That's not the case for the Pandora's Box System from Vin Di Carlo. It is a pretty good product for someone who is struggling to understand women and offers good insights into how to understand them better and why they act the way they do. Especially where it comes to dating, attraction, love and romance.

Pandora's Box is a dating system (or psychological tool) that provides you with tactics and approaches towards women with different personalities and psychologies. It's premise is to give you some classifications of women in terms of psychology towards attraction and sex, and to show you what they are receptive to, what they resist or avoid and ultimately what is the approach that best fits them - and they are most comfortable with. It is actually the first part of the overall Pandora's Box program. The second part is a full 32 week subscription course, named 32 week PhD in Female Psychology.

So the way it is structured is that you sign up and get some ebooks to teach you the basics of the course, and then in order to get more detail and support on how to use the information you can stay on the 32 week PhD in Female Psychology for as long as you feel necessary (to the end if desired).

There are some great things about this program. But you know what. I'm going to jump straight in and tell you what is The BAD first. I find it's always helpful to start on the critical side.

Number one. This is an expensive program. You pay 69.95 for the initial ebook system. Then if you stay on for the 32 week PhD you'll pay 24.77 weekly. The first payment starts 14 days after you sign up (unless you decide to cancel within that period). At the moment it is one of the most expensive dating advice programs that you can buy as a result.

If you really want to see how this compares. Imagine that you stay for the full 32 weeks. You will pay just over 800 in total. Other dating companies, potentially not as good, run services of bootcamps for a weekend where you can get personal coaching for around 1000. The better ones are around 2500. Keep in mind that Pandora's Box System is a virtual program, and you are paying as much as a personal coaching program with some of the lower end coaches.

Another point is that there is a lot of marketing embedded in the product. It just gets a bit annoying when you are marketed to within products that you pay for. This includes things like promoting other products such as their bootcamps by telling you about things you can learn on them (but not giving you the information of course).

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Jeans For Tall Women

Jeans For Tall Women
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Perfect Online Dating Profile

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First impressions are always lasting and this is very true for your DATING PROFILE PHOTO. Use these tips to make sure that you leave the best first impression possible and increase your hits with viewers.Your dating profile photo says more about you than you might think. So when it comes to deciding what to include in your photo, remember that more is actually better in this case. Instead of choosing a photo showing the fun you are having with all your friends or one where you smile into the camera, choose one that shows a little skin. Since the best bodies will naturally get the most attention don't hesitate to show off that well toned six-pack. You will quickly notice the increase in hits amongst viewers.

Research revealed that there is no real benefit in showing your face in your PROFILE PHOTO as opposed to hiding it, so this option is entirely up to you. If you do want to show your face and you are considering which facial expression to use, try looking away from the camera instead of smiling directly into it. This technique shows a little mystery; something most girls love. And if increased hits are what you are after, this will definitely do the trick.

As for the quality of your photo, try using a digital camera rather than your webcam or cellphone camera. People prefer a high quality photo much more than a low quality one and if needed, ask one of your friends to take it for you. There are just something odd about a self-shot photo so a webcam or cellphone is not the way to go when you want to gain popularity. Most people will agree that they will react to higher quality photos first as that draws more attention and speaks somewhat about the person himself.Remember to keep these factors in mind when you take your next profile picture. You will increase your popularity and number of hits easily; and this is exactly what you want when looking to promote your dating profile online. When it comes to dating your first impression is very important and this is usually in the form of a profile photo. Make sure you leave the right impression the first time around with these tips for men.

Many people wonder what they should reveal in their profile photo. You need to decide between a shot showing your face only, one that includes your friends when having a good time or even showing a little skin. In some cases more is sometimes better and this is very true for DATING PHOTOS. Studies have shown that revealing your well toned six-pack in your photo will definitely count in your favor as the best bodies will naturally attract the most attention. And if it is attention you want, definitely consider this when you are choosing your next shot.

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Friday, November 25, 2011

Rebel Wilson Super Fun Night Trailer

Rebel Wilson Super Fun Night Trailer
Aussie comedy quality Rebel Wilson has scored a new American TV show - called massive Fun Murky - and the trailer has just inside. Roundabouts it is:

In the show, Rebel Wilson plays see attorney Kimmie Boubier, and her two best friends are Helen-Alice (Liza Lapira) and Marika (Lauren Ash). They have had a standing date every Friday night for the snag 13 kick - they nevertheless have a motto for what they call "Friday Murky Fun Murky": "Continuously together! Continuously Inside!"

But Kimmie's up to date support throws a spanner in the works: not only is she now accomplishment with her star, "Lady Lawyer of the Time" Felicity Vanderstone (Kelen Coleman), but she meets a self-confidently substantial British attorney, Richard Lovell (Kevin Bishop), who invites her to his party at a hip club.

Overweight to go down time with Richard and heed Felicity's advice to conduit, Kimmie sets out to make somebody believe you her friends to lift Tremendous Fun Murky on the aim.

massive Fun Murky was in black and white and executive formed by Rebel Wilson. Governmental producers are Conan O'Brien, David Kissinger, and director John Riggi ('30 Stagger). massive Fun Murky is from Conan O'Brien's problem company, Conaco Prods and is formed by Warner Bros. Monitor.

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Count Arthur Strong Series 2 Confirmed

Count Arthur Strong Series 2 Confirmed
"Out-of-the-way from an unconventional low ratings BBC2 show off announced they show off what went before to re-commissioned "Value ARTHUR GO Into Collision" for a second bank. The anouncement comes reading the confirm that In account of On writers Vicki Pepperdine and Jo Scanlan will in a straight line be made memorable on BBC4. Puppy Tenderness is a story of love, dogs and the love of dogs. Set give or continue The Wirral-based dog training classes run by the phenomenal Nana V (JO SCANLAN) - "FOR ALL YOUR DOGGING Requirements", Puppy Tenderness follows two very distinct women - Nana V and Naomi Singh (VICKI PEPPERDINE) as they go over their align dogs, insupportable teenage take the trouble and frightening husbands.

PUPPY Tenderness is 6x30-minute, in black and ineffective by and starring Jo and Vicki, directed by Susan Tully, formed by Jo Willett and executive formed by Saurabh Kakkar and David Baddiel. It is a BBC Position cock-and-bull story in association with Woof Productions. It was commissioned by Shane Allen, Top, Strum a part Commissioning and Janice Hadlow, Top, BBC Two and BBC Four.

Shane Allen: "Puppy Tenderness all celebrates and sends up the in its entirety supposed relationship amongst dogs and their owners. This is a real passion garland from Jo and Vicki who show off yet again succeeded in creating a transcendent set of characters."

Value Arthur Go into bankruptcy, which debuted on BBC Two grip night, has been re-commissioned for a second bank. In font by Steve Delaney and Graham Linehan and starring Steve as ex-variety whittle Value Arthur Go into bankruptcy reading Rory Kinnear as Michael, the son of his old ratification partner, bank two will see most important laughs, sob and injuries as their lives keep in good job to create.

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Language As Tool To Enable Change

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You just gotta love that guy. If you are interested in learning about the power of language and influence, I invite you to constantly listen out for Barack's speeches.

Look for the way he is anchoring messages in his speeches to certain body movements. Listen how he uses hypnotic language patterns, or those high-level words that we can all agree to. The main differentiator to Bush is that he is using the language of suggestion - he invites people to listen to him.

Those that have made it through the Language and Behaviour Profile Training or our NLP Master Practitioner will realise that the language of suggestion is most suitable for those that are resistant to messages.

And, be honest, everybody is resistant to messages when we are confronted with them the first time. When we see someone the first time and this one person tries to convince us. How do we feel? Like we want to run away....

To further support my point - just remember the last time, someone approached you on the road or in the mall and wanted to strongly sell something to you. Argh - I believe you felt this churn in your stomach. It didn't make you feel good, did it?

The contrast is the language of invitation. Inviting people to listen to you. In NLP, we call this "Softening Frames". They are introductionary parts such as "I invite you to....", "May I suggest....", "Would you be able to consider..."

It is just another sentence, sure, but the sound is different. Try it out the next time you want to make a point or convince someone.

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Barack invites people to listen to him. This probably is the main difference to the Bush administration who demanded that others (involving the rest of the world) listen to them - think about the way Bush stated the "be for us or against us" points after September 11.

The article below indicates the importance of language in making a point.

Wayne Fields, a professor of English and American culture studies at Washington University in St. Louis is quoted as saying that "using language is one way to help effect that change."

Don't we all agree?

I am happy that I have chosen the language of influence as my job, as my hobby and my mission in life. Have you?

Read the article and share your thoughts!

"- The "War on Terror" is losing the war of words. The catchphrase burned into the American lexicon hours after the attacks of Sept. 11, 2001, is fading away, slowly if not deliberately being replaced by a new administration bent on repairing the U.S. image among Muslim nations.

Since taking office less than two weeks ago, President Barack Obama has talked broadly of the "enduring struggle against terrorism and extremism." Another time it was an "ongoing struggle."

He has pledged to "go after" extremists and "win this fight." There even was an oblique reference to a "twilight struggle" as the U.S. relentlessly pursues those who threaten the country.

But only once since his Jan. 20 inauguration has Obama publicly strung those three words together into the explosive phrase that coalesced the country during its most terrifying time and eventually came to define the Bush administration.

Speaking at the State Department on Jan. 22, Obama told his diplomatic corps, "We are confronted by extraordinary, complex and interconnected global challenges: war on terror, sectarian division and the spread of deadly technology. We did not ask for the burden that history has asked us to bear, but Americans will bear it. We must bear it."

During the past seven years, the "War Against Terror" or "War on Terror" came to represent everything the U.S. military was doing in Iraq and Afghanistan, as well as the broader effort against extremists elsewhere or those seen as aiding militants aimed at destroying the West.

Ultimately and perhaps inadvertently, however, the phrase "became associated in the minds of many people outside the Unites States and particularly in places where the countries are largely Islamic and Arab, as being anti-Islam and anti-Arab," said Anthony Cordesman, a national security analyst at the Center for Strategic and International Studies, a Washington think tank.

Now, he said, there is a sense that the U.S. should be talking more about specific extremist groups - ones that are recognized as militants in the Arab world and that are viewed as threats not just to America or the West, but also within the countries they operate.

The thinking has evolved, he said, to focus on avoiding the kind of rhetoric "which could imply that this was a struggle against a religion or a culture."

Obama has made it clear in his first days in office that he is courting the Muslim community and making what is at least a symbolic shift away from the previous administration's often more combative tone.

He chose an Arab network for his first televised interview, declaring that "Americans are not your enemy." Before his first full week in office ended, he named former Sen. George J. Mitchell as his special envoy for the Middle East and sent him to the region for talks with leaders.

According to the White House, Obama is intent on repairing America's image in the eyes of the Islamic world and addressing issues such as the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, unrest in Pakistan and India, Arab-Israeli peace talks and tensions with Iran.

Using language is one way to help effect that change, said Wayne Fields, professor of English and American culture studies at Washington University in St. Louis.

"One of the contrasts between the two administrations is the care with which Obama uses language. He thinks about the subtle implications," said Fields, an expert on presidential rhetoric. The Bush administration "didn't set out deliberately to do things that were offensive but they liked to do things that showed how strong they were, and to use language almost in an aggressive sense."

Obama, he said, understands that language and conversation must be worked at and that it's "not just a series of sound bites."

White House officials say there has been no deliberate ban on the war-on-terror phrase. And it hasn't completely disappeared. White House press secretary Robert Gibbs has used the wording in briefings, and it's still in vogue among some in the Pentagon and State Department.

Asked about Obama's avoidance of the phrase, Gibbs said the president's language is "consistent with what he said in his inaugural address on the 20th. I'm not aware of any larger charges than that."

Juan Zarate, who served as the deputy national security adviser for combating terrorism during the Bush administration, said he has seen signs that the new White House is trying to subtly retool the words, if not the war.

"There's no question that they're looking very carefully at all issues related to how the war on terror is packaged, to include lexicon," said Zarate. "All of this is part of an attempt to see how they could at least frame a change in policy even if, at the end of the day, the actual war on terrorism doesn't change all that much."

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Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Nlp Is About Personal Development

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NLP or Neuro Linguistic Programming has its own language, just like any other discipline. Think computer science, accounting, IT, even market research, HR Consulting etc.

For that matter, every company has its own language - expressions that tie its members together and create a culture.

The main challenge is that when you join a class in university, a company, or read a book about some things, it is your choice and mostly, you have some idea about the topic or area that we entrench. May be about the jargon used. The words we use to differentiate ourselves from others - just listen to the words young people use and compare it to the words older people use. There are plenty of differences.

Now, most people who join NLP Classes also have some idea of what is happening. They might have read a book - plenty available nowadays - read an article, talked about it with friends, checked it out on the internet and so on.

They might know that NLP is about personal development, discovering your inner self, finding direction, managing goals, helping others, communicating better or at a very deep level, changing behaviours, instant change, learning how to manage meetings or negotiations and much, much more.

So far, it is clear.

But NLP approaches things differently and in a very different style. It goes deeper. Actually, NLP teaches participants to approach life differently. It teachesthat we are not failures, that it is possible to succeed, to understand that there is opportunity in challenges. It teaches to manage our mind, that we have a choice in our life that we can define our future, that it is possible to overcome negative behaviours, beliefs and habits in a moment. It shows that we can work with others to help them achieve their goals.

It is only..... that NLPlers use a very funny language.

Have you ever heard some NLPlers try to explain what NLP is? To someone who has no idea about NLP? It is a permanent struggle.

Remember, that NLP's founders were engaged in computer science (Richard Bandler) and linguistics (John Grinder). Somehow this combination proved fatal in terms of choice of language.

If you come to the "right NLPlers" they talk about "Submodalities, Meta Model, Strategies or Chaining or Collapsing Anchoring.

It is hard to stay alert in this maze.

Some newer NLP schools try to change the language, but then, it is even more confusing.

It is about the ability to really translate something somewhat difficult and strange into something that is beautiful and easy to understand. To me, it is one of my goals in the training to allow my practitioners to use NLP and be able to explain it to anyone they meet easily and effortlessly.

If they manage that, then I know my job is done. Because NLP is easy.

It is simplest form, it is about identifying where someone wants to go in their life (their future) and to contrast this with where they are now. Then, it is about discovering the ways and steps they need to take to reach their desired future. What would they need to go there, how do they go there, when and how someone is affected after reaching their goals.

That is probably the easiest definition. There are more available that go deeper into the sphere of NLP, but then, still manage to get the message across.

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Psychology What Is Nlp

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Imagine you're in a car without brakes, steering wheel or gears heading at top speed into an unfamiliar area where there are signposts in a language you don't know and the terrain suddenly changes with no warning. One minute you're bowling along feeling OK and then suddenly there's a steep hill and you can't see the brow of the hill. With no gears the engine is struggling and you wonder if the car will make it to the top; then suddenly the road goes downhill but there's an obstacle and with no steering wheel you can't make it round the obstacle safely. Well, I think parenting is rather like this, don't you?

What NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) does it give you controls in your car so you can manage the hills and obstacles. It translates the signposts for you so you can make choices about which way to go.

As parents we make decisions every minute of every day and mostly things work out well and we feel blessed with our children. Other times though things don't go so well and no matter what we do, we feel guilty or we feel we've failed as parents. Imagine you believed that these feelings of failure were instead feedback that we can learn from? You will learn in my workshops how to use the feedback to do things differently to get the result you want. If you always do what you've always done, you will always get what you've always got.

We often think it's our children who need to change when in fact we have more control over what we do so by making changes ourselves we can affect the changes we want to see in them. Let me give you an example; lots of mums tell me they have difficulty getting their child to get ready for school in the morning. They shout, cajole, bribe and chivvy to no avail. This is like the signpost in a foreign language. Your child is using a different language. Is your child visual, auditory or kinaesthetic?

A visual child will respond much better to 'Look at the time' or 'See how quickly you can put your shoes on' or 'I can see you're nearly ready now'. An auditory child will respond to 'Listen to me' or 'Tell me if you've got your lunch box' or 'Let's talk about your homework in the car'. A kinaesthetic child wants to be active anyway but possibly not getting ready for school so 'Hurry along now How fast can you get ready?' or 'Let's get into the car'. Do you know which your child is?

Some children are 'small chunk' they want instructions in small bits so rather than 'Get a move on we need to be in the car now' (big chunk) instead give him one thing to do at a time - shoes, bag, teeth etc

Is your child 'towards' or 'away from'? A 'towards' child needs to know what you want him to do eg get to school on time whereas an 'away from' child doesn't want to be late or doesn't want to leave the TV. Express what you need in their language.

Some children are 'choices' others are 'process'. A 'choices' child likes options so offer him choices about whether to do teeth first or after shoes for example. A 'process' child wants a list or a plan 'we need to do this and then that'.

If your child is 'internally referenced' he will want to check in with what he needs to do himself so ask 'what do you think you need to do now?' whereas an 'externally referenced' child will want to know what you want him to do and cares what other people will say so 'what will your teacher say if you are late again?' would work for him.

Look for the positive intention. Your child does not set out to annoy you. That is your response to his behaviour. Your child just wants to carry on what he's doing at the moment which is enjoyable. Find another way to get him to do what you need. Focus on what's working well rather than what is going wrong. Remind him of how well he did something, how quickly he got dressed or how well he ate his breakfast and how great it's going to be to get to school on time.

NLP is a great tool to add to your parenting skills whatever age your child is. If you'd like to know more; join me on one of my workshops.

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Tuesday, November 22, 2011

The Leadership Circle Launched In India

The Leadership Circle Launched In India
"Best-in-Class Leadership Development Extended to Indian Companies " JUNE 16, 2013 MUMBAI (India): Changing the Global leadership mind, The Leadership Circle is now delighted to announce its expansion to India. In a marketplace offering a plethora of leadership and culture survey instruments, The Leadership Circle is unique in that it pulls together the best from the broadest spectrum of fields and bodies of research. "Our world needs leaders dedicated to creating a thriving future for global business and our sustainable collective welfare," said Bob Anderson, founder and CEO of The Leadership Circle. "We're pleased to extend our suite of best-in-class leadership assessments and workshops to this part of the world." Pratap Nambiar, CEO of Thought Perfect (Singapore) who has been responsible for introducing The Leadership Circle to India said, "To be able to address the challenges of complexity and adapt to the constantly changing environment it is not enough to develop competencies alone but also to bring about a shift in the leaders consciousness. When Indian leaders embrace the holistic leadership framework, they will realize their full potential and become more effective at enhancing business performance." The company's flagship offering, The Leadership Circle ProfileTM, is a robust 360-degree personal leadership assessment process that is designed to accelerate leadership effectiveness beyond traditional competency-based approaches. The Leadership Circle Profile is the only 360-degree competency assessment that simultaneously provides focused competency feedback while revealing the underlying assumptions that create a leader's pattern of strengths and limitations. The Leadership Circle Profile helps leaders understand the relationship between how they habitually think, how they behave, and, more importantly, how all this impacts their current level of leadership effectiveness. Once this awareness is established, leadership development can proceed. Without it, change rarely happens. The Leadership Circle's differential advantage is that it has the ability to understand the nuances of a company's culture and the challenges that senior executives face, combined with the application of a core methodology in a customized fashion. It delivers both short term and long term coaching results based on the company's needs. Bob Anderson also added, "We now recognize that leadership is a process of transformation whereby a leader is encouraged to make a profound shift - to gain a deeper understanding of themselves, the world, and their relationship to others. This deeper, longer term work is what our Leadership Circle Profile brings to the table, what The Leadership Circle stands for, and this is the kind of work we invite organizations to experience." A Leadership Circle Profile certification is already scheduled from July 31-August 2, in Mumbai (details can be found on the calendar page here). Each certification is a three-day program in which individuals with executive coaching experience can be certified to administer The Leadership Circle assessments, provide debriefing, and support follow-through coaching for managers and leaders.ABOUT THE LEADERSHIP CIRCLE The Leadership Circle offers best-in-class 360-degree assessment and development tools for individuals, groups, teams, and entire organizations. What The Leadership Circle ultimately provides is leadership "transformation"-change that evolves authentically from the inside out. Visit www.theleadershipcircle.com