Sexual Attraction How To Tell If Girl Is Flirting With You

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There is the girl who you see at school everyday. She is very popular but you are not. You really like her but you don't know if she likes you either. When you eyes meet, she smiles and when you talk to her she seems nice and fun to be with. But, hey, maybe that is just how she is but however you still want to be sure that those signs are come-ons. Having to interpret a girl's signal can be tricky. You need to know that there is a difference between friendly flirtation and romantic flirtation so you need to be careful else you might misunderstand the signs only to find out that she is just been friendly or maybe that's her nature. Here are a few tips with which you can find out whether a girl is flirting with you.

Signs That She Is Flirting With You

How Does She Behave Around You: If she is always finding a reason to be with you, talk to you, keep you company, always smiling and winking at you, smiling at your jokes, always touching or flipping her hair, blushes when you complement her, holding your gaze for much longer, finds a reason to touch you often or you find her staring at you or your lips then you can be sure that she is flirting with you.

How Does She Dress: Does she take extra care to look good if she knows she is going to see you or does she make sure she sees you when she is looking good? Women put a lot into their appearances especially when they are trying to attract attention so when you notice her always looking smashing and seeking your attention or approval then she is flirting with you. Also if you notice that she is altering her dressing to suit your taste then you know she is interested in you. For instance if you mentioned you love seeing gals in a particular style of dressing and you notice that she is starting to dress that way then she is obviously interested in you.

Does She Give You More Attention: This is an extension of the first point. Does she leave her friends to talk to you or talk to only you when you are in the midst of your friends or she pays extra attention to you when you are talking or passing by. In fact if she treats you like you are the only guy present, then it is safe to say that she is very much interested in you.

Does She Give You Gifts: We all know women seldom buy gifts for men except men they really care about. On the other hand, they feel it is men who should buy gifts for them but if you notice that she starts to give you gifts for little or no reason even when it is not your birthday or she offers to buy you dinner then it means she is flirting with you and wants you to start something with her romantically.

How Often Does She Call You: If she is calling you all the time even at odd hours wanting to share every little detail with you or seeking your advice or just wanting to hear your voice before she goes to sleep etc then you can be sure she is flirting with you.

Jealousy: This is a sure way to guess if she is flirting with you because as humans we can't be jealous about someone we don't feel anything for. So if you notice she gets sad or angry when she sees you chatting or laughing or playing with other girls then you know that's because she is hurt and she really has feelings for you.

How She Acts With Other Guys: If you are still not sure whether she is flirting with you or she is just been friendly, you can try observing how she behaves when she is with other guys. Is she as friendly with them? Does she act the same way she does with them when she is with you? If she acts the same way then she is not flirting with you or maybe she is just a natural flirt but if she behaves that way specially for you then you know she is flirting with you.

Guys, I hope these tips help you make the right decision. As we all know, not many women find it easy to indicate their feelings for a guy or to chase a guy so they tend to indicate their interest by giving these signals which they call green-light. It is also important to be sure with your interpretations else you might ruin a good friendship or embarrass yourself reading meanings into an entirely harmless gesture.

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