when it comes to approaching women?
Like "You can get her! Go up to
her and approach her! She's yours!"
Or: "Don't worry about rejection!
Think positive! She WON'T reject you!"
Or: "You look like a stud! Don't
worry about your insecurity about
your height, your money, your
prestige, your age, your build,
your reputation, your experience,
your voice," ad INFINITUM.
Well, the truth is, a LOT of this "THINK
POSITIVE" advice is GREAT if you are
ALREADY pretty confident!
If you are ALREADY "pimpin" as they say.
But if you are trying to get your
foot in the door so to speak with
women, and especially for the very
FIRST step of getting over the fear
of APPROACHING women,("Approach Anxiety")
then just "thinking positive" is the
absolute WORST thing you can do
for yourself!
Trying to think "positive" can actually
make you far MORE ANXIOUS about yourself
and about your chances of success.
There are some situations that are
RIGHT for "thinking positive", but
APPROACH ANXIETY ain't one of them!
I should know, I used to spend
years trying to get PUMPED UP
to get over approach anxiety.
And yet, approach anxiety is something
that MUST be solved in order to get
ANYWHERE with women.
The number one BLOCK between guys
getting the girls of their dreams and not
getting the girl, starts EARLY- it starts
with FAILING to approach women CONSISTENTLY!
Right now, at the very moment you
are reading this, there are TONS of
women around you who are single,
in fact there have never been more
single women in history than there
are today.
Before you can apply the more advanced
concepts I teach for creating ATTRACTION
and for getting a woman to treat you with
FULL RESPECT, you have to MEET THESE
WOMEN IN THE FIRST PLACE.
And although you can meet women
online, the REALITY is that the
CONFIDENCE that comes from
being able to approach women
ANYWHERE in the REAL world
SPILLS OVER into ALL of your
interactions with women, and
it spills over no matter where
you meet them.
Women can tell right away that
they are dealing with a man who
has OPTIONS.
You will be radiating this confidence
without even thinking about it, it will come
through in your thoughts, body language,
tonality, everything.
When a woman senses you have OPTIONS with
other women, you ALWAYS become more attractive
to her, it's far more VALIDATING to her
self-esteem because she knows you could
have chosen a billion other women INSTEAD OF HER,
but you decided to approach and chat with HER.
She can detect this confidence in a MICROSECOND,
I promise you that.
She can also detect a LACK of this confidence
just as instantaneously.
So, OBLITERATING APPROACH ANXIETY
should be your very FIRST PRIORITY when it
comes to which skills to MASTER with women.
If you are only relying on the women that
fall into your lap through introductions
or through "luck" you are going to be
waiting FOREVER to meet the right
woman, and you're also going to be
so starved for female attention, that
chances are you will KISS UP to
the women that DO come your
way since you don't have as many
OPTIONS at your disposal.
You can CHANGE all this with
getting over approach anxiety
once and for ALL.
Thanks to some very cool people that
have taught me how to do this, I can now
share with you the strategy as well so that
YOU WILL DEFINITELY, ABSOLUTELY
CONQUER APPROACH ANXIETY.
Now, let me ASSURE you, this is not
"think positive!" advice- I PROMISE YOU
THIS IS NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT AT ALL.
Learning these secrets is something that
I personally value MORE than anything
else I've ever learned, and the truth is,
I owe it all to a man who I can't even
do justice to by calling him "a friend"
or "best friend". He's been MUCH
MORE than that, and one day you'll
get to meet him at a future seminar when
we finally team up to ROCK this planet.
Go HERE immediately to learn how you
can overcome approach anxiety NOW:
http://getagreatgirl.com/approach-anxiety.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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