This can automatically make guys nervous, fidgety, or even feel afraid and inferior to women.
Even a guy who has learned to become comfortable around beautiful women - and is able to have a conversation with them can still blow it IF he believes that the woman is superior to him.
By believing that the women are superior to him, he will do all the wrong things that will repel the women away from him.
Without even realizing it, he will try to impress the woman, or feel the need to "prove" to the woman that he is "worthy" of her attention.
He will try to be too nice or accommodating, compliment her too much, agree with everything she says and never disagree or challenge her in any way.
The average guy will do all of the above because he doesn't want to "upset" the woman in any way (because, in his mind, she is superior, remember?)
The problem is, all of the above will make the woman see you as weak, spineless, boring, and yes, even somewhat inferior to her, i.e. out of her league.
And, women are not attracted to weak, spineless and boring menespecially if the guys are clearly out of the women's league.
You may think that being nice to her and agreeing with everything she says will make her like you. But it will not. In fact, it will push her away from you.
Most important of all, women know the game that most guys try to play - by being nice to them and being all-agreeing all obeying, all the time.
Women, especially pretty ones, know exactly what you're trying to do, which is to get her to like you so that she will sleep with you. And they will see you as being manipulative and a liar.
I mean, think about it
If you're being all-agreeing and all obeying, you're obviously trying to get her to like you. But, you're not being your true self. You're pretending to be nice and all-agreeing.
Anytime that you try too hard to get her to like you, she will see it a mile away. And, she will start to see you as just another lying, manipulative chump who's trying to get into her pants.
(And, in most cases, she wouldn't be wrong, would she?)
So, how do you fix this?
Simple
STOP treating her like a hot, sexy woman. Stop doing all those nice and "impressing" things you normally do around hot women - and start treating her like just another person you've met.
Think about it if you were talking to a friend or even to a woman 3 times your age who you were not attracted to in any way, would you talk to her differently than you would a hot woman you're trying to attract?
Of course you would. And, the hot woman knows this! She sees it in almost every guy.
Soif you really want to attract her, show her that her "outer beauty" does not make her any more special than other women.
Treat her like everybody else.
That means, do not agree with everything she says. Agree with her only when she's saying something that you honestly agree with. Otherwise, state your opinion.
Most importantly, do not compliment her on her beauty or physical attributes.
Be a man. Have some thoughts and opinions of your own! Don't be like all those other boring guys out there who will try to insult her intelligence by agreeing with everything she says.
That doesn't mean you have to be a jerk or a bully. You can disagree with a smile, and still make your point.
You can even poke a little fun at her from time to time. Yes, this is something most guys would never dare do! And, that's why it will work. She will find you to be confident and she'll see you as having a mind of your own.
You can even take this "approach strategy" further, and start to create some real attraction in her - for you.
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