Sexual Fidelity

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In the Big City, I've come across many men who have girlfriends. And a girl on the side. And sometimes multiple girls spread across the country, just awaiting their arrival at the airport for weekend work events and meetings. This may seem like something that only happens in the lives of celebrities and politicians, but these cheaters can be found on the barstool nearest you.

Whenever I learn this about a guy, whether he's the boss of a friend or a guy in our circle, I immediately feel terrible for his clueless girlfriend. Now, you may be thinking "how would this woman not know he is cheating?" Well, some of these men hide it so well, that they are able to get engaged to their significant other while still keeping a pretty young thing around in the office or on a Vegas work trip.

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So, this post is really not about the douchebag cheater or his na"ive girlfriend, but about "the other woman". She knows he isn't single. Yet, she still goes to happy hour as his date for drinks, meets him in Miami for a beach vacation, and sleeps over when his girlfriend is away visiting her family. Seriously? What is wrong with these girls? I understand you can't help who you fall for, but you can help if you take action or not! I am usually the first to blame a man and defend the woman, but I just can't understand this other woman's motives. He isn't going to leave his girlfriend for you. And if he does, he will cheat on you too.

Have you ever defended (or been) the other woman? xo

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