There's a way you can do both, which I discovered by chance.
I was checking out some photos from the club photographers recently, trying to find the ones of my friends and I. Then I stumbled onto a pic of a girl I forgot to approach that night. The photo was tagged so I clicked her profile.
Did I add her?"No."
I don't add chicks I am seeing, or ones I plan to game. Read my FACEBOOK PRECAUTIONS post to understand why. It might save you from some unnecessary drama.
What I did is take a few basic notes about her. Things that are neutral enough to avoid coming off as creepy, yet personal enough to impress a girl if you use the information correctly.
ROUTINE TITLE: "Fake Cold Read"DIFFICULTY LEVEL: intermediate - advanced
The key is using this trick on women who regularly attend the same venues as you. If her photos show her at the same club, say....every Friday, that's a way to know where to go as well. You have to see them again to approach. Only then will you do this. It's not a true COLD READ. It's actually a FAKE COLD READ because you already know the answers from seeing her Facebook. This can't be done often, obviously because you don't routinely stumble across the profiles of girls you haven't approached. But here's what you can do:
EXAMPLE 1: HER BIRTHDAYSome chicks list their birthday on their profile. If you know it, you can chat them up for a few minutes, then say something like "You're a Scorpio, aren't you?" Then list a few Astrological characteristics Scorpio is known for, which you should have read up on first. Remember - talk to her first. You'll have to use your verbal game to justify what you notice in her behavior and mannerisms that made you guess her sign!
You could even go as far as guessing her age. Try and struggle with it. Don't make it seem like it's easy, but still make it playful and fun for both of you. Add a wager - "If I guess your age, then you have to buy me a drink!" If you know her age already - that's a guaranteed free drink!
EXAMPLE 2: HER ETHNICITYThe girl who's profile I saw listed "where" she was born. If it's there, you can guess their ethnicity. This will only be impressive to girls who are immigrants or children of immigrants. White or Americanized women might not be too impressed.
EXAMPLE 3: HER OCCUPATIONNo, you do NOT want to guess her exact job or place of business. That's stalker talk. Are you nuts? Seriously, be a little more mysterious. If she's an artist, tell her "I'll bet you're involved with something really creative"." Again - you must justify why her personality comes off as "creative". Ask the right questions.
EXAMPLE 4: FAVORITE THINGSThis is really just a side-order. Totally unnecessary, but if you do use it, be prepared to prove it in the near future. Basically, you check out any favorite movies, books, music, etc. that she loves and casually mention one or two of them as being your favorites as well. I don't recommend trying to claim "Sex And The City" is a favorite, and highly doubt you'll want to watch the whole DVD box set with her just to get laid! So use this example with caution.
THINGS NOT TO TRY AND GUESSHer name - Defcon 1 on the Stalker chart!Her address/city - More stalker shit!Her friend's/family's/dog's name(s) - Did the first two not get through to you?
ALTERNATE SOURCESIf you are unable to find a girl on Facebook, but you see her at a venue and want to try this routine, you can use a last-minute source to gather information. This requires the help of a wing. Here's what you do:
1. Send the wing in for a recon approach. The target CANNOT see that you and the wing are friends at any time, neither before or after the night is over! Your wing is to gather basic details about the target, such as the info listed in the examples above, and report back to you. He asks some questions, talks for a few minutes and then ejects without proceeding to the comfort phase.
2. You give it about 5 minutes or more. You go in and attempt the Fake Cold Read with the information your wing provided.
In order for this to work, you must NEVER confess that you learned this from another source, be it her Facebook, your wing, etc! You're using information you already know to help build comfort. Don't undermine your own work!
From experience in the field, I guarantee when done properly you'll make a much more memorable first impression with a girl by taking this approach than you'll ever achieve online.
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