Before we go into that you must remember that the text you send are just to keep the girl on a spot long enough to create a friendly relationship with every chance of turning into something serious, the text will not reveal any of your unique personality. Make sure that each text you send her are unique and very special as there are probably hundreds of guys out there who are also trying to win her over and might have sent her hundreds of the type of messages you send to her. Another reason is the fact that you don't want to bore her. If you have ever sent a girl or a guy a message and did not get an instant reply or maybe got a delayed reply it could be as a result of the fact that you sent the wrong message and believe me it is usually very heart breaking when you have to sit by your phone waiting for messages that don't seem to be forth coming. So before you think of flirt texting, here is what you should know.
KEEP FLIRTY MESSAGES SHORT: You can start the message with something playful that will give her a sneak into what you want from her, use the same flirtatious tones that you will use when you are with her. Remember that the text is not the way to really know a guy or a lady so avoid lengthy texts which usually conveys too much messages, a short text will keep her wanting more and more of your text and even create the chance for prolonged flirting.
BUILD A MYSTERY: when texting guys or girls make sure the messages are intriguing and mystical, it will make a girl think of you for at least 30 seconds as she will try her best to solve the mystery an eventually if she can't she will be forced to text you back, this is true because all girls are curious. This will also make both girls and guys eagerly expect your next messages and eventually text you when your messages are not forthcoming. Avoid answering all the questions he or she asks as it will build more mysteries which will lead to more messages or better still more chances to flirt as i prefer to call it.
GO SLOW AND STEADY: the purpose of text flirting is to create a strong standing relationship which will automatically put other things in place, so if you are texting a girl or a guy do not be in a haste no matter how fast you guys happen to click and enjoy the messages. Take your time to build positive tension between the two of you, this tension will trigger the feelings of wanting to see each other, don't be surprised that she will mention it just when you are about saying it.
BE FUN TO TALK WITH: texting takes lots of time and if the fun is out of it the person will definitely stop texting, so try as much as possible to keep the fun. You can do this by talking about common interests between the both of you, do not bring up a topic that he or she knows nothing about as it will not give him or her the chance to participate hence making it boring. For instance if she asks you "hey Buddie what are you doing?" you might want to say "yeah ghurl, am just chilling with the girls, maybe going to the theater soon, care to join?" Do every thing possible to make him or her feel that they are missing a lot when they are not with you.
AVOID BUGGING: Bear in mind that guys and girls don't always have their phones with them especially guys, so make sure you don't send too many messages at the same time otherwise you will be seen as jobless with your true intentions defeated and most irritably you will be seen as a bug. The purpose of text flirting is not to give him or her yourself in one piece but to make him or her hunger for you. Avoid sentences like " i have been calling you, where were you Why are you not picking my calls don't you like chatting with me" and so on. In any case the conversation gets boring don't just stop texting for no reason as it would seem, just send a message like this " be right back shortly, got to do something quickly" this will allow the boring period to wear off and enable you to start something new.
EMOTICON: use symbols to convey your feelings, like a smile, a grin, a wink, a sad face, a broken heart, a sick face, a funny face and so on. This will make the chat lively and also give her a clear impression of how you feel. When texting use the name of the recipient often.
Make sure you think before you send any message, text flirting is not as easy as you may think because people's reaction and responses will be different, but with the right steps and caution it will yield good results.
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