with women who are the ULTRA-HOTTIES, it would
be the ability to EMOTIONALLY EXPERIENCE what
these women experience in ONE area:
How WANTED they feel by the opposite gender.
In ONE SECOND of EXPERIENCING that, it would
be like SEEING a MASSIVE STAR EXPLODE RIGHT
IN FRONT OF YOU, and having it somehow
BOOM with GODLIKE THUNDER.
The power of that lesson, the truth in it,
the ramifications of it, would be that powerful
More powerful than all the "TOP SECRET"
documents on women being downloaded into
your brain.
Experiencing this changes EVERYTHING,
similar to how one domino that falls
triggers endless other dominos both
internally in terms of how you feel,
but also in terms of the kinds of
things you feel like SAYING, and in
terms of the BEHAVIORS that you show.
And before I go one step further,
let me clearly state it's not just
the FEELING that is important, but
all the ACTIONS that FLOW from that
feeling.
So let me give you examples of what I mean:
Example 1:
If you KNEW right now, that TONS of women
would be OGLING you the moment you STEPPED
out the door, how would you feel?
Well, at first, you might wonder what's going
on, then, it would be AWESOME, and then,
after finding out how many women act so
WIERD around you, it would start to be
a bit ANNOYING.
So, you would very QUICKLY stop thinking
about "where do I meet a woman" and you
would instead start thinking "Where do
I meet the RIGHT woman?"
If women approached you, you would not
be so flattered since it happened a lot,
and since most of these women ended up
quickly wanting to get a date with you
and go home with you and call you ten
times a day and get jealous when another
woman even LOOKED your way.
You would lose all neediness.
You really WOULD go out on Saturday nights
JUST TO HAVE A GOOD TIME, and if you went
to the club with your friends, meeting
CHICKS really would just be ONE small
part of the evening, you really WOULD
be going for the music because you
really WOULD be getting way too much
females bothering you all the time
anyway in everyday life!
And I use the word "bother" because most
of these women would be NO FUN for you,
since they all seem so SERIOUS around
you, and they all seem to want to LOCK
YOU DOWN INTO A "CONTRACT" or something.
If a woman came along and seemed to just
be HAVING FUN and NOT pressuring you at
all, but who really WAS sexual but not
pressuring YOU into it, and if she could
CHALLENGE you a bit and be more HONEST
instead of all the women who just told
you ANYTHING EVEN IF THEY DIDN'T BELIEVE
THE WORDS THEY SAID BUT THEY ALL SAID
WHATEVER THEY THOUGHT WOULD GET A
"RESULT" FROM YOU
well MAN of course
you would REALLY GO FOR THAT RARE WOMAN
THAT didn't pressure you, that was way
more fun, that was not always so serious,
and that even CHALLENGED YOU to be the
BEST MAN you could be rather than just
kiss up to you.
And all along the way, imagine that this
was the only woman out of HUNDREDS and
HUNDREDS that also RESPECTED you at all
times, even if she occasionally you got
UPSET at her but later realized it was
because she was GENUINELY trying to help
YOU be your BEST and she wasn't afraid
to lose your temporary approval because
she REALLY cared about you even if it
meant risking LOSING your approval!
Now imagine, you got into a little argument
with her. Nothing disastrous, just a little
HUMAN argument. And for a moment,
you thought to yourself, "I don't need her,
I can get TONS of women!"
So, you walk out the door, thinking,
"I'm the big boss man, nobody can tell
me NOTHIN!"
And you IMMEDIATELY notice even more
now how there's ALL THESE OTHER WOMEN
and you even smile a bit at one, KNOWING this
will VALIDATE you real fast and it will feel real
good.
This other woman is ECSTATIC that you smiled
at her, she IMMEDIATELY starts flubbing over
words, stammering, she starts telling you how
GORGEOUS you are, you can TELL this is
going to be EASY, you can get her in bed
in SECONDS.
And then....you immediately feel DISAPPOINTED.
You GOT the validation hit, SO FAST, faster
than getting a search result on GOOGLE lol.
You realize this woman that's kissing up to you
does not even REALIZE a thing about you,
she just MUST have you NOW.
It feels WEIRD to you.
You think, "Why is she being this way, she doesn't
even KNOW me?"
You feel BAD for her.
You feel SORRY for her.
In fact, you almost feel like sleeping with her just
to make HER feel good, but then you remember
that the LAST time you did that when you were
single, you could NOT get rid of the woman!
She was OBSESSED with you and kept on
PRESSURING YOU into a relationship.
You couldn't even THINK about whether
you wanted a relationship or not, all you
could think about was how do you get back
your FREEDOM TO THINK AND JUST
BE YOURSELF AGAIN WITHOUT
HAVING TO PRETEND THAT YOU
ARE REALLY INTO THIS TOTAL
STRANGER!
In fact, just this SMILE that you gave this
woman is already bringing out the needy
side of her, so you learn for the future to
NOT be so smiley around men, because
it just ends up hurting everyone.
AND I PROMISE YOU, THIS IS JUST
THE TIP OF THE ICEBERG.
We haven't even spoken how this would
all affect what you would find SEXY
behavior in a woman, both outside
the bedroom and IN the bedroom.
We haven't spoken about how this would
affect your sense of humor.
Just to touch on this for a second, you would
FOR SURE be a lot more lighthearted about
sex, and a lot more lighthearted about women.
You would DEFINITELY not hate women,
you would DEFINITELY not feel NEEDY
for women, but you would also feel a certain
kind of "predictable feeling" about most
women, since most women all seemed to
turn into the same unattractive personality
around you.
But let's get back to our little make-believe
argument that you had with the RARE woman.
Well, even though now you COULD easily
"dump her" and get ANOTHER woman,
the problem is, there just AIN'T any other
women around that you really WANT!
Not only that, but the more these other women
keep TRYING to get you without even caring
what YOU think of their approach to you, the
more you keep thinking of that woman you
just had the argument with.
And the more you really WANT her BACK.
But the problem is, she's so awesome, and
she KNOWS it, and in fact, she never
PRESSURED you to come back.
So NOW, you realize FULL POWER that
the ONLY reason you want her, is because
you actually really DESIRE her, in many
ways, and NONE of it has anything to do
with HER pressure.
So you end up calling her and getting over
the argument REAL FAST, and if anything,
you might have just a tiny bit worried that
maybe this AWESOME WOMAN might
have been thinking about some OTHER guy
because you were too silly to be mature
enough to see her point or something like
that.
So you could have ALL THE WOMEN IN
THE WORLD, but you want THIS one.
All this is EXACTLY what it's like for most
FEMALE HOTTIES.
It's the reason that even though they have so
much CHOICE, they really don't FEEL that,
what they feel is that they have a huge choice
of guys that they DON'T WANT.
But there's one thing DIFFERENT about
the situation when it comes to women.
It's one thing if a woman gets all flustered
or emotional in her first impression with
a man. This doesn't ruin her femininity.
But as a MAN, it's even MORE important to
be experiencing that emotion of EMPOWERMENT
with women.
The real problem is not that you must always
withhold compliments, validation, niceness,
etc, from women, it's that 99% of the time,
when guys do those things with hotties,
it's coming from SUPPLICATION, from a
feeling of NOT HAVING CHOICES.
You can buy a woman a drink if the action
of buying that drink has NOTHING TO
DO with you thinking that the drink is
what's going to help you get her.
In fact, if a guy is withholding validation, but
also coming across as emotionally COLD, then
all he will end up doing is seeming STINGY
with his emotions and his pocketbook.
And this will all reflect INSECURITY.
Not only is insecurity the opposite of masculinity,
but it also RUINS all the FUN sexual vibes that
are so important for ramping things up in the
bedroom (or wherever you two get physical!)
Now here's the thing: EVEN IF YOU DON'T
FEEL SECURE, the best way to start feeling
is to ADOPT THE ACTIONS that you would
take if you WERE.
Listen, it's fine if in your HEAD, when you
see that woman, you think, "MAN, THAT CHICK
IS SOOOOOOOOOOOO HOT, SHE IS WAY
OUT OF MY LEAGUE".
The best way to get OUT of that mode of thinking
is to ACCEPT that indeed you might FEEL this
way, but you must not GIVE INTO THOSE
FEELINGS!
Feel the yucky feeling, but don't LISTEN
to it!
Don't ARGUE with your yucky feeling, as
it will give you a BILLION reasons why
it's right for every argument you give
against it.
DON'T LISTEN TO THE YUCKY FEELING,
BUT DON'T ARGUE WITH IT EITHER.
Instead, TAKE THE ACTION THAT YOU
WOULD TAKE IF YOU KNEW SHE WAS
NUTS ABOUT YOU, AND THAT ALL
WOMEN WERE NUTS ABOUT YOU.
Something incredible happens when you do this:
YOU GET BETTER RESULTS!
Something ELSE happens when you do this:
YOU START TO ACTUALLY EXPERIENCE
THAT FEELING OF WHAT THESE WOMEN
FEEL ALLLLLLLLLL THE TIME ABOUT
THEIR SEXUAL POWER.
And you then start to suddenly SEE a billion
things about attraction CLEARLY that before
seemed like a cloudy, hazy mist of confusion.
The trick is not to be COLD to women.
The trick is not to "negate" their self-esteem.
The trick is not to kiss up.
The REAL key is UNLEASH the FIRE of your
LOVE, of your EMPOWERMENT, of your SEXUALITY,
of your DOMINANCE, and of your sense of
INTRIGUE, FUN, and ADVENTURE!
When you do this, you want to PLAY with
women, you don't want to CONTROL them!
Now, the thing is, UNLEASHING these
forces is like having A ROCKET ENGINE.
It will give you CRAZY POWER with women.
Then, on top of this power, for MAXIMUM
results with women, you need to know the
SPECIFICS of how to CHANNEL that power,
so that you know exactly how to APPLY it with
women from the moment you see them till long
after you've been in bed together.
That's why I created my Attraction Mastery Program,
so that you can get the FULL PICTURE on attraction.
This program goes ALL-OUT on giving you explicit and
clear instruction on exactly what to do to ensure
your success at every moment with the women
you want.
It's being used world-wide by men to get the women
they want, and I know it will work for you too.
It's at:
http://getagreatgirl.com/Mastery.html
Till next time,
Michael Marks
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