The reason is that attractive girls are everywhere and if you want to start approaching them you need to be rather flexible and prepared for anything.
There are a few different pointers for approaching women at the gym, at the mall, in the street, at the beach, in the club etc but it really boils down to having the confidence to approach a girl and starting a conversion.
All you have to do is say "hi", followed immediately by be honest with the reason you wanted to talk to the girl. Being direct shows that you are confident to women and you don't waste any time.
Introduce yourself and ask for her name, continue by engaging her in some conversation about herself or about the location you're at.
Be mindful of her personal space and always maintain eye contact, but don't stare.
Within 3-5 minutes you should be ready to ask her what her number is so that you can continue the conversation or invite her out for a drink.
Your success in how to approach a girl you find attractive and getting her number depends on your verbal and non verbal communication. If you are relaxed and confident when you are talking to the girl she will feel at ease.
You have to remember that you're probably going to be a stranger to her at first. Even if the girl works in the same company or goes to the same school or college, she doesn't really know you so it's vital you make her feel comfortable being around you.
If you are nervous and worried about getting rejected she will see that straight away and she will also be nervous whilst talking to you. Most likely, women will try to end the conversation and walk off. They don't like being put into that position where they think they're going to break your heart.
If you speak with confidence, even if you run out of anything to say you can always laugh at yourself and make her feel comfortable by saying something like "this is so dumb, I never walk up to any girl and now I don't know what to ask you... let's do this, give me your number and I'll text you when my brain reboots".
Showing that you are completely comfortable in your own skin is a huge turn on for women and if you can learn to do that then you can effortlessly become a master at approaching girl a you find attractive and getting her number.
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