One Billion Rising The Days After How Do We Be Love In Each Moment By Nenari Diamondlady February 16 2013

"By "Nenari Diamondlady"diamondlady.net"You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the old model obsolete" ~Buckminster Fuller""It's time to put aside the traditional concepts of relationship and seriously consider the notion of a cosmic, spiritual partnership that will transcend those of the past. Not only is this concept beginning to take hold and flourish, it is prevailing.... ego will have no place in such a union. Spiritual partnership is based upon equality, balance between the male and female energies, the freedom and the strength to be one's self while taking responsibility for one's actions, sacred sexuality, open and truthful communication without fear of ridicule, honouring and respecting the others strengths and weaknesses, and the genuine recognition that your partner is truly your most intimate and all-embracing friend.' ~Yoni Day" We just had the most AMASING One Billion Rising event here! And in that event and is the whole reason why we did the dance and event as we did, we addressed the question that Eve Ensler, creator of One Billion Rising, of her question in her video of what happens now? What happens on 15 February and beyond, we danced, we rose, but how do we carry it forward in our lives in every moment? Our event (the archive of which can be viewed here http://www.ustream.tv/channel/one-billion-rising-vernon-charity-livestream) addresses just this as the whole first part of the event was geared toward answering Eve's question. To take it a step further now, this may be the first of a series of articles that helps to even further show how there is another way to stop the violence and rise in Love. If you watch the lovestream (livestream) archive link above here and listen to the message given first this then that is given below here will further enhance this for you, giving you further SOULutions (solution through, of, and as the soul) and tools to help guide you on the journey. For my mission and purpose and what I have dedicated my life to in the last 30 plus years doing this professionally and my whole life as a lightworker in mentoring many here locally and across the globe is to show others there is another way. And that way is love. So I share this below that came flowing through me in channel ~ To be able to relate to one another in honouring one another is the key. To BE this is to understand with an inner knowing that while we are genderless in spiritual form, in human form experiencing and expressing the spiritual BEing we are, we have differences in how we experience life as the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine, and it is within embracing those differences in acceptance unconditionally free from judgment for who we are and where we are on the journey, is what has Love be the only rule. How do we BE this? How do we place this into practical application in our lives? It is through this understanding ~ The Divine Masculine speaks more nonchalantly non direct, drops hints, clues, and such things, while the Divine Feminine is direct and says it straight up. That is why most people have a hard time understanding one another because they do not understand the message behind the message. The reason for this is the Divine Masculine is meant to be nonchalant so as to allow for the Divine Feminine to tune in, to tune into their intuition which is one of the many beautiful ways of the Goddess of who the Divine Feminine is. Likewise the Divine Feminine is to be straight forward so as to keep the Divine Masculine on task in the sense of like when the warrior was in battle, having a one singled focus or mission. Rather than being in battle though the Divine Masculine's truest gift is to be his mission and purpose both in giving his gifts to the Divine Feminine and having them cherished and also giving his gifts to the world, in this he is being his truest and deepest heart. The other reason the Divine Masculine speaks or writes nonchalantly is because it goes to the deep core wounds of fear of rejection. A man is afraid to be rejected by any woman because it is seen in his eyes as weakness and that they are not good enough. Take a look at the song by Darren Hayes called Good Enough and really listen to the lyrical content to understand this. Also this is why when a man goes to ask a woman to marry him (or to be his girlfriend, have a relationship, or asking for a job or for money or anything) he often agonises over such for fear of rejection and/or being abandoned. It isn't unless or until the Divine Masculine stops rejecting himself will he then be within his deepest heart to ask for what he desires without this fear of rejection and abandonment which I speak of in the article called 'Living in Truth ~ The Sacred Union' (http://natunenari.net/TheSacredUnion.pdf ) It is the Divine Feminine's charge to bring the Divine Masculine to God and to his mission and purpose of his deepest heart again and again even when he gets lost and requires navigation in this path so in turn the Divine Masculine can give his gifts to the Divine Feminine and the world fully in living and BEing his deepest heart. It is for the highest good of both for both to BE this. The Divine Feminine also processes things differently than the Divine Masculine. When the Divine Masculine comes to the Divine Feminine with something, they come to us with such as a means of speaking the way they would speak or write rather than the way we as the Divine Feminine would speak, write. Thus, we are to in such understanding, both understand what is being said and also what the underlying message is and also respond in a manner of the Divine Feminine which is nurturing. An example of this is a dear friend of mine came to me last night with a text message in which he said that hey it would have been nice if you would have called me and that I really could use some money. Now if I were to read that at face value and look at it as the Divine Feminine I Am, I could then get all upset because he is accusing me of not calling him and blah blah blah, Instead though I reached for another way, a new way, a way of love, nurturing acceptance, understanding, and compassion. Because I understand the message behind the message for what he is really saying to me is, hey I Am really struggling here I Am feeling lost and insecure and it would be really good to hear from you and I Am unsure of myself and of life right now because I have no money and no way to navigate, please shower me with your Divine Feminine energy and love to uplift me so that I can continue to be all I Am to be on this earth for you and for all, I just desire to be loved and appreciated. Because the number one thing the Divine Masculine desires is to be loved and appreciated for the gifts he gives to the Divine Feminine and the world. So, my response to him back was exactly that, loving, nurturing, and compassionate and I wrote back to him and said that I had some money here for him, as well as telling him how amasing he is and that I was sorry for not calling that my phone plan costs money during the day to phone. And that was ALL he required to hear because once I did that, he just LIT up and responded back to me in love saying I could keep the money and that he knew that somehow the universe would provide. And then we went on further to text in a loving and appreciating one another way. Why? Because my response to him was not to get pissed off that he was accusing me of not calling him, but rather understanding what he was REALLY saying. This is just an example of how we as the Divine Feminine are to understand the Divine Masculine and in BEing such Love Is. Another example of this is just recently a woman who I mentor came to me all upset because her twinsoul asked her what she was doing that night and she as the Divine Feminine saw it as he was wanting to chat and when she attempted to chat with him he wasn't interested and really responded little so she was all upset and freaking out thinking oh he doesn't want to talk to me and our relationship is ruined and she was second guessing if she said or did something to scare him off and such things. What I explained to her in mentoring her is that he asked for a deeper reason and that her responding as she did thinking it was an invitation to chat was free from being what he meant. When a woman asks another woman what are you doing tonight, it means they want to get together and talk and connect and so we as a woman would respond to that woman saying hey lets chat, lets get together etc. When a man asks a woman what is she doing tonight it is not because he wants to chat with her. So her responding as if he were a woman and then getting upset because he wouldn't chat with her was unfounded because he is not a woman, he is free from desiring the same as a woman does, so of course he would be free from responding to chatting because he is not a woman! :) I also explained to her that when you understand the message behind his message, for reasons I wrote above about how the Divine Masculine speaks nonchalantly, to understand Divine Masculine talk that this man, he was really asking her what she was doing tonight for a deeper reason. For he was having an insecure moment and wondering if she was with another man so he asked her what she was doing, although he is not going to tell her that he is feeling insecure because men don't say that to a woman as most men would never admit that to a woman for fear of looking weak or less than, so he will just ask nonchalantly what she is doing tonight and depending on what she says, this will quell the scared little boy inside who just wants to know that the one he loves is there and not with another man and that she loves him. That such as he was doing was simply a call for love and to be loved. For to love and be loved again and again is why we are here. He just wanted to know he is loved.In such a moment of me sharing this with her, she then understood and was able to lovingly respond to him. On the flip side, for the Divine Masculine to understand the Divine Feminine, we as the Divine Feminine process things differently then you as the Divine Masculine. So the same understanding, compassion, love, and nurturing acceptance is being required as well. The Divine Masculine usually uses short concise statements and says very little and again it is the message behind the message we as the Divine Feminine are to hear, embrace, and respond lovingly to. For the Divine Feminine, we will write or speak long diatribes so as to process our feelings and emotions to come to a SOULution or reSOULution of something. Thus, when this occurs, Divine Masculine we invite you to please allow the process and simply hold the space and resonance in a loving manner as we go through such. All too often men will roll their eyes or say we are being emotional, too sensitive, or inappopriate or other such things. It is free from being that at all, it is simply how we process things differently than you. Also often times a man will want to play Mr. Fix and come to the rescue and try to "solve" the problem for us. Please know that if we want something solved in that manner, we the Divine Feminine will come to you and say so straight out as is written above. If we do not ask you for such, this means that we just want to be heard and acknowledged that you hear us as we come to the reSOULution on our own. And some moments, all we desire is to be held and loved and told its ok. And much like you the Divine Masculine, we the Divine Feminine also desire to be appreciated, loved, honoured, respected, and cherished for all that we give to you and to all. When you as the Divine Masculine hold this space and resonance for us in this manner, we love you all the more. Deep down at our truest deepest core and heart, all of us just desire to be loved. Each of us is that scared little boy or girl desiring to be loved. Which reminds me of a quote that the Master Artist poured through me of this (which can apply to both Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine). "Loving someone unconditionally means that you Love even that dark side......deep down a man is as John Lennon puts it in the song Woman 'the little child inside of the man' who all he wants is to be Loved, all any man deep in his heart wants is to know he is Loved, honoured, and cherished. A man wants to know that no matter how dark he is or how fed up he does things or is, that all the same she Loves him. I don't care who the man he is or if in ego he will deny such, but to a man the approval of the woman he loves is like one of the most important things ever to a man. And a man who feels he doesn't deserve that Love will test the woman he Loves over and over again for her to prove her Love for him. Our task as the woman he loves, is to continue to be there for him, Love him unconditionally, bumps, bruises, and all. Love the whole of him, all of him. Hold him, that scared little boy who is the man in your arms, hold him, and say I Love you and its ok and you can do it over and over again no matter how much he fights you and says Let me go. Love him all the more. Love him from all the Love within you in which you Love yourself as the whole, perfect, complete, and beautiful being you are and show him that he is this as well through your Loving him as you Love yourself sharing your completeness with him. Allow your arms to be his surrender and freedom no matter how much he kicks and screams, Love him all the same. Love him into healing, Love him into freedom. For with enough Love, anything can be healed. With enough Love anything is possible. ~unknown. Mutual honouring, loving, respecting, cherishing of one another and understanding the balance of how to relate to one another is what stops the violence in our world and creates a world where Love is the only rule and where light shines from every heart in giving our all to another and to the world. Nurture one another, love one another. We ARE indeed beautiful creatures! :) In Love ~NenariAbout NenariKnown as the Princess of the Sea, the "Diamondlady" of Lemuria who brings the Love and Light to the world in all ways through the gifts poured through her hands and through the beauty of her song, Nenari, Princess of the Sea, is a universally celebrated singer, author, speaker, and spiritual mentor within the resonance of True love and Spiritual Oneness. As an Ambassadour of Love and Light, Nenari is known as the "Diamondlady" of Lemuria, the soul who brings forth the Diamond energy of Lemuria to this earth within infinite ways. She is currently the author of several books including "Life Long Learning ~ Transforming Learning" and "Stepping Into Spiritual Oneness ~ Spiritual Rememberings of the Soul Through Life Experience", "Song of the Princess" and her most recent book "Beloved Troubadour"; and has appeared on various radio shows and within articles of international publications. Nenari has been a regular featured column in the India Newspost entitled The OM (the One Moment) and has also been a contributing music writer for Gonzo Online, writing in-depth pieces from the heart of our musicians to touch, move and inspire you to see the real, raw, vulnerable, and from the heartness of the musician behind the music; being totally naked and exposed, revealing all and holding back none, and their legacy that they desire to leave for us all. Nenari is also the Director of The Diamondlight Spiritual Oneness Centre and also the co~creator of the OneSoul REALationship Series along with Natu. In addition, Nenari is also Music Manager/Publicist for Natu (Chris Madsen) in addition to other artists on the journey. Nenari is a gifted channeler, healer, seeing your soul and its path. From the age of 6, Nenari who was originally raised Catholic, would sit in church and would see spirit guides, loved ones who crossed over, and auras. As a spiritually gifted reader, she has over 30 years experience in channeling Spirit, dream interpretation, aura, and many other forms of readings. As a Crystal Therapist, Reiki Master, Chakra Therapist, and meditational guru, Nenari has a unique way of channeling through Spirit tapping into the soul and being the clear conduit for healing in all dimensions. Diamondlady is also a spiritual minister with a doctorate in Divinity through her extensive study of the spiritual realms and wisdom that pours through her being. She enkindles souls to experience the light within their soulful BEing and facilitates Spiritual Oneness partnership by empowering all souls to connect with, trust in, and follow their own souls guidance free from the illusions of limiting beliefs A songstress since the age of 8 and a channeler/writer since the age of 12, Nenari's gifts through song and prose are a testament to not only her life's journey within this life, yet also is the legacy of all ages pouring through her very being. Having also experienced 11 NDE's (Near Death Experiences) in this life, Nenari has a unique connection with the Master Artist we know as Source/Spirit/God/All That Is (whatsoever you choose to call such). Nenari provides spiritual circles, workshops, seminars around the world to help assist others on how to remember the spiritual beings of Love and Light we all are and to get real and clear in all your relationships. As a clear conduit of the Divine, Nenari channels the wisdom of Spirit within multi~dimensional ways to inspire each soul to develop their own inner voice of the soul of who they are and brings the gifts of Infinite Healing, Absoulute Love or Soulful Love, Light, and Peace to all whom she inspires. She enkindles souls to experience the light within them by empowering all to connect with, trust in, and follow their own souls guidance free from the illusions of limiting beliefs. Nenari's healing Love and Light seeks to remind us that when you live from your heart, it is your soul guides you rather than the illusion of this earth that we call as fear and doubt. To be living from your heart, from your soul, and your intuition, free from limitation, is to bring bliss and Absoulute love into your life experience and within the lives of all those whom you inspire which in turn illuminates the universe in an infinite circle. By simultaneously experiencing our Oneness, as well as, our individuality, Nenari's vision is that of seeing this earth dimension as simply whole, perfect, and complete as it IS (Infinitely Spiritual); where Absoulute Love is seen as the natural resonance that occurs when we let go of fear and the illusions of limiting beliefs and step into the OM, the One Moment of Love and Light. For more on her beautiful creations, please visit her website at http://www.diamondlady.net/We Are All Connected In Love