Date Tips For Men How To Prep Your Place Part 2

You can congratulate yourself-you've managed to bring a woman back to your place. So now you can just sit back and relax, right? Everything should fall into place from here, no? No! If you spent your whole life trying to land your dream job, do you throw your feet on your desk, lean back, and call it a day when you finally get hired? You've worked hard up until this point, but you're not done. The game continues, and you've got to be ready. Last week, we discussed how to prepare your home to create a trustworthy, clean, and mature atmosphere. Now that we've got that done, let's examine the sexier side of prepping your place, specifically: making your home ready for date night. There are three primary things you have to be ready for if you're going to bring someone home: showing her a good time, the possibility of sex, and the potential of a sleep-over.GOOD TIMES Your home has to be able to host a date. You'll probably be having a number of dates there anyway, or at least later sections of dates may end up at your place. Either way, if she comes to your place and you've got nothing beyond a bed and a refrigerator, her good energies may halt in their tracks. Have things to do in your place. If you haven't eaten, cooking together can be a lot of fun, so maintain all your basic cooking supplies and ingredients. Table sports like ping pong, pool, pinball, foosball, and air hockey are all good activities where you can play and talk. If she's into it, try playing some video games. It sounds nerdy, but there are systems and games that can be fun for even the least experienced gamers. The Wii and the Xbox Kinect are super accessible to new players, and they run a number of games that don't have the high-fantasy or war themes that alienate a lot of women. Remember also that you don't want to pick a game that will take a long time to learn to play or has a complicated plot, since you don't have a hundred hours to play through the story; better are the games designed around short rounds that can be replayed in succession. Ideal choices are Wii Sports, Mario Kart, and Rock Band. Be prepared for some more mellow activities too. Keep interesting items visible, pictures or souvenirs and the like as conversation pieces. Have stations on Pandora or albums on iTunes to listen to in the background while you chat. Keep tea and coffee, a Brita filter, and something alcoholic to drink, red wine at the very least. Cuddling up and watching a movie is classic, so maintain a subscription with Netflix, HBO GO, or another cable plan that allows you to pick movies on demand.SEX There's a reason it's called "getting lucky"-you shouldn't expect it all the time. No matter how well you've done so far, for tonight, it may just not be in the cards. Don't be upset about it, it's not a big deal. However, there are some things you can do to make your place more conducive to sex. Having dimmers, or not-so-bright lamplight, can create a sexier atmosphere by effectively blurring your place's flaws. If your floor is hard or cold, invest in a nice rug to soften it. And don't forget that a nice smell goes a long way. Buy some scented candles (with a girl friend's guidance) for that extra edge. When it comes to your bedroom, the energy should be relaxing. That means no highly-visible clocks that may make her feel pressured. Keep your desk, your computer, your files, and anything else work-related somewhere outside. Any pets that live in a tank or a cage should be elsewhere, because of the smells and noise they create. Other pets who sleep with you should also find another spot for the night, since your guest probably doesn't want animal company when you're getting intimate. Next to the other preparations, the actual sex is fairly easy to be ready for. You need a few supplies:o Clean sheets.o Condoms, a bunch. Know how to put one on before the moment of truth.o Lubricant. It doesn't matter how old she is, all women's bodies are different. It may come in handy. The rest is supplemental. If you want to buy sex toys, incense, kama sutra books, go for it, but don't pull these things out if you've never slept with the girl before. They're largely a matter of taste, and you shouldn't introduce them until you know her better sexually.SLEEP-OVERS Whether or not you have sex, your guest may end up sleeping over. If you want that to happen again, she has to have a good experience. That means feeling clean, dressed down, and physically comfortable enough to sleep. Your bathroom should be fully stocked. There should be toilet paper on the roll, tissues within reach, and clean hand towels on the rack. Having a spare toothbrush for guests sends the message that you're a player; unless you're giving her what's clearly a spare toothbrush from the package, a bottle of mouthwash will usually suffice for her teeth-brushing needs. Make sure there's a spare contact case and contact solution for her to use, and more than one clean towel in case she wants to take a shower. Have all this accessible and obvious in the bathroom, in case she wants to use something during the night or in the morning when you're sleeping. She probably doesn't want to sleep in that little black dress she wore earlier, but she might not want to sleep in the nude either. Have some clean pajama pants or shorts for her to slip on, as well as any old (CLEAN) undershirt or T-shirt. For comfort, buy at least a full sized bed. Make sure the sheets are clean and that there's at least one, if not two pillows for her. It's been shown scientifically that women tend to get colder than we do, so have blankets on hand in case she wants extra. Show her where the outlet is if she has a spare phone charger, and set the alarm for when she wants to get up. You're almost in the clear. Women, as a whole, tend to be hungry after many hours without food, (go figure). Have something for her to eat in the morning. It doesn't have to be breakfast in bed, but if you're not making breakfast, some juice, some fruit options, and cereal are a minimum courtesy. If she wakes up starving and you've got nothing to offer, she'll dump you for a Starbucks. Don't flub the finish line just because you're too lazy to pick up a bagel.A FINAL NOTE As always, the things you have in your home should be positive for you, not just for a hypothetical date. Don't buy a telescope for romantic stargazing if the thought of space bores you into a coma. Doing things just to impress a woman is not the formula for any sort of lasting relationship. You may be able to suffer through a night of the jazz albums you hate, but what happens if you start dating her and she expects you to come to jazz clubs with her? Don't prepare your place just to succeed with any old girl-get it ready for the woman you truly want. Until next time, gentlemen.

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